Don't be a passenger in your own life

Its sad how some women think they can 

trade their 

own freedom for love and loyalty. 

They think by handing over control of their life over to a man, 

they will be loved, 

taken care of and appreciated in return. 

Not knowing that human beings are 

selfish and opportunistic creatures by nature, 

quick to take advantage of anyone who lets them. 

Ladies, don't be a passenger in your own life, 

take the wheel, take charge and control. 

Don�t be caged like an animal and be told what to do, 

where to go, 

what to wear, 

what to think, 

what to believe in, 

who to be friends with and all that other crap. 

Not all prisons have bars. 

Be in a relationship that does 

not take away any of your freedoms 

you had when you were single. 

Be in a relationship that allows you to be you. 

Don�t be in a relationship that tries to limit you, 

imprison you or change you. 

No love in the world is worth sacrificing your freedom and identity for.

Forgiveness

I don't need apologies from anyone for me to forgive them. My forgiveness is free and unconditional. It is not based on those who apologise or who don't.

I forgive even those that never apologise. I forgive because I want to, not because someone apologised.

People Make Mistake

I don't forgive people cause I'm weak

I forgive them cause I'm strong enough

to understand people make mistakes.

Apologizing

Apologizing does not always mean that you are wrong and the other person is right. It just means that you value your relationship more than your ego.