Better to leave it alone

Stay strong and remember 

that relationships are like broken glass, 

sometimes it�s better to leave it alone, 

rather than try to put the pieces back together, 

and get hurt all over again. 

Remember the times you cried, 

and how long it took you to even be able 

to look at another guy like that. 

When your song comes on the radio, 

turn the station off. 

When the day comes that he realizes what 

a mistake he made and tries calling, 

turn your phone off. 

When he tries coming to your house, 

don�t answer the door. 

One day, you�ll find a guy who�s worth all the tears, 

but he won�t make you cry. 

You may think that you�ll never care about someone like you did, 

that guy that you always ran back to, 

but you will. 

It�s gonna hurt like hell, 

and it�s going to need time to heal, 

but the point is, 

It will heal.

What do you do?

What do you do when smiles go away? 

When everything changes within one day? 

What do you do when love falls through? 

When the one you love doesn't love you?

Broken Glass

Stay strong 

and remember that relationships are like broken glass, 

sometimes it�s better to leave it alone, 

rather than try to put the pieces back together, 

and get hurt all over again. 

One day, you�ll find someone who�s worth all the tears, 

They won�t make you cry. 

 It�s gonna hurt like hell, 

and it�s going to need time to heal, 

but the point is, 

It will heal

Don't be a passenger in your own life

Its sad how some women think they can 

trade their 

own freedom for love and loyalty. 

They think by handing over control of their life over to a man, 

they will be loved, 

taken care of and appreciated in return. 

Not knowing that human beings are 

selfish and opportunistic creatures by nature, 

quick to take advantage of anyone who lets them. 

Ladies, don't be a passenger in your own life, 

take the wheel, take charge and control. 

Don�t be caged like an animal and be told what to do, 

where to go, 

what to wear, 

what to think, 

what to believe in, 

who to be friends with and all that other crap. 

Not all prisons have bars. 

Be in a relationship that does 

not take away any of your freedoms 

you had when you were single. 

Be in a relationship that allows you to be you. 

Don�t be in a relationship that tries to limit you, 

imprison you or change you. 

No love in the world is worth sacrificing your freedom and identity for.

What's in your mind and heart will remain forever

There was once a guy who was very much in love with a girl. He folded 1,000 pieces of paper cranes as a gift to her. Although at that time he was just a small fry in his company and his

future didn't seem too bright he was contented with what he had.. for he was in love.. and they were both happy together..

Until one day, this girl told him she was going to leave the country for Paris and try to live a new life there with no intention of returning back. She also told him that she cannot visualize any future for both of them because he was poor and he had no dreams. He couldn't believe what he just heard and couldn't help but cry. She was his dream, his love, his friend.. she was his everything..

Just when he thought he had it all he gets to experience the true side of the world.. with all it's misery in it..

But love is being able to accept the truth no matter how it hurts.. She broke his heart and yet he still loves her..

Days have passed, months have gone by and yet his feelings for her has always stayed the same.. 

He worked hard night and day to put his mind off the past.. 

He wanted to prove her wrong about the fact that he has no dreams.. he can be somebody someday.. 

Finally with all the hard work and help from his friends, he was able to build his own company..

One rainy day, while he was driving along the highway, he saw an old couple sharing an umbrella in the rain while heading to some destination. It didn't take him a while to recognise them for they seemed familiar to him.. they were his girl's parents..

He drove back to them.. slowly.. to show them how his life has changed. how successful he has become.. he's got his own car, house, company.. he's got it all.. 

But what he saw next confused him. The couple were heading to a cemmetery. Out of impulse he went out of the car and followed them. 

She was there.. his heart pounded so fast for he couldn't believe what he was seeing.. He felt the warmth of his tears thrickling down his cheeks.. He was crying in the rain..

He saw his girl's photograph smiling sweetly at him.. from her tombstone.. next to the paper cranes he once gave her.

Her parents felt his presence and looked back at him. Out of confusion he asked them why.. and how did all this happend..

She did not leave for Paris for she was ill with cancer, it was her clich�. She believed that he will make it someday and she didn't want to be his obstacle. All she ever wanted was to be with him.. but she chose to leave him to spare him from her suffering and frustrations..

Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to,

doesn't mean they don't love you at all. 

She wanted

her parents to put his paper 

cranes beside her, because, if the day

comes when fate brings him near to her again... he will remember how much she loved him and how much he meant to her... 

Once you have loved someone, you will always love her.. forever. 

For what's in your mind and heart will remain forever.

He cried in silence and whispered... 

"I thought I almost had it all

.. now i know what was missing.. you.." 

Married to a handsome ghost

Last night I was lying on the bed and it was 12 o� clock. I was chatting with my friend Criss discussing about my poems and after saying good night to her I was listening to some music and I slipped into slumber. About 2 or 3 o� clock at the night I got up and realised that my music player was still on, so switched it off. Then I went back to bed and wrapped the blanket round myself as it was a bit cold.

I could suddenly feel hot air on my neck and felt like someone was breathing over my neck. Moreover, I could feel someone move its arms around my waist. That's right there was a ghost on my bed because I sleep alone in my room!

It�s spooky and strange and unbelievable too but trust me I felt that and I immediately got up and sat on the bed and what do I see?? I saw a dim light over my dressing table. I saw that the ghost was writing something on the mirror when I went near the mirror shivering. I saw that the ghost was writing with my maroon lipstick. It said

"I love you darling."

I wanted to scream at that moment but unfortunately could not get my voice to come out.

Then suddenly I felt something cold grab my waist. I felt a hand push my hair back and it started kissing my neck then the ghost whispered in my left ear, "Will you marry me."

I turned and before I could scream I saw a ray of light one figure. I expected a very dreadful, scary figure like the ones we see in the movies like "Grudge" or "The ring".

He was very far from scary, he was very handsome, he was 5'8 perfect for my 5 feet height, he was a well built man, he had dark hair and skin like snow and he was shining like the moon in the sky.

It was "Ray". I had seen Ray two months back when I was waiting for a taxi. He was standing beside me, he smiled at me and I smiled at me. We said "hi" to each other and he told that his name was Ray. I shook hands with him and just then a hipster pushed me and I lost my balance and was about to be hit by a bus but he ran, caught my hand and pushed me away. The next thing that I saw was that Ray was lying on the road, motionless and bleeding. I couldn't see him as a lot of people had gathered around him. I couldn't stop crying. We had just met 5 minutes ago and had 60 second conversation and he had saved my life.

I was so grateful to him and for a month I had gone to that place every day just with hope that may be just maybe one day might get to see "the man who had saved my life" but I never saw Ray after that. And now Ray, the man who saved my life was standing before me, I could not believe my eyes.

�How did he find where I stayed?� I asked myself.

To my utter surprise I got a reply, �I saw you when you came in search of me on Street way road, you couldn't see me because I was dead by then Lina, it took me two months to learn the powers so that you could see and touch me.� He further added, �I found you three days back but did not want to scare you, I have been seeing you sleep and �it is the most beautiful sight that I have ever seen before�; I fell in love with you, the first time I saw you.�

�I love you too, Ray.� saying this I started to cry.

He grabbed me by my waist and my feet were no longer on the ground. "My prince had swept me of my feet" he had these most beautiful brown eyes like chocolate chips in milk. I could drown in those eyes forever. Then our chests touched each other, I could feel my chest being pressed against his cold but hard chest. I felt like as if I was in the most secure, safe and the most amazing place. It was like I had forgotten all my worries; I had the most remarkable feeling of my life. He carried me in his arms. We had locked our eyes in each others eyes; he walked to my bed and sat on it. I was sitting on his lap. He slowly pushed away my hair from my face and ran his finger on my cheek and lips then he smiled and kissed my lips.

Then he took out a ring and showed it to me. It was a beautiful platinum ring which had a blue diamond which was princess cut. I smiled and nodded. He placed the ring in my ring finger. We were married and no one could part us now. He made me lay on the bed and he lay beside me with his left hand under my head and his right hand over my waist hugging me. I could be like this forever as �I was married to the most handsome guy.� I lay hugging and talking to him, I didn't remember when I fell asleep.

Today morning when I got up I thought "what a beautiful dream I had", I saw Ray in my dreams and just as I was about to get up I saw that the blue diamond ring which was my wedding ring in the dream was actually on my finger.

"My heart skipped a beat."

�I WAS REALLY MARRIED TO A GHOST.�

by: Thumblina

Little space is all it needs

When you feel someone close to you slipping away, 

at some point you have to let go...

You have to step aside so they can make their own decisions. 

If you need to pick up the pieces afterwards, be there to pick them up. 

But if everything turns out okay, be happy and accept it. 

Sometimes the hardest thing is knowing how to let a friendship drift, 

when a little space is all it needs

Just because..

Just because i don't scream my feelings, 

Doesn't mean i have none. 

Just because i seem indestructible, 

Doesn't mean I'm not weak. 

Just because i don't cry in front of you, 

Doesn't mean I'm heartless. 

Just because you think you know me, 

Doesn't mean you actually do.

Don't be a Silent Reader

I often wonder about silent readers. I wonder who you are, what you do, why you read my blog.

I wonder because I am what you would call an 

�I�m reading your blog and you will know it� reader. 

Why? I'm not entirely sure. I do know that I love to engage with a blogger that I feel has something in common with me. But then again, there are also bloggers that I follow that I have nothing in common with, but I enjoy the way they write, take pictures, dress, etc.

I�m serious, every blog that I have ever followed has at least one comment from me. It is my way of letting that blogger know that I follow them because I enjoy their blog. But I also notice that when I leave several comments and get no interaction back, I become a silent reader. 

So I wonder if some of my silent readers feel/felt that I have not made an effort in interacting with them when they made an attempt to interact with me. Or maybe some people do not like to join the conversation because they do not feel they have anything extra to add. 

Or maybe the whole 

"if you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all" 

is working in my favour  

Let�s hope that is not the case ;).

Getting off track here.

Any who, all of this to say that I really would like to know who�s reading. So if you are a silent reader and have never left a comment, jump out the bushes and scare me with a hello. I just might hop on over to your space and violate you with comments/emails.

Lot's of Love from BQ

little happiness

When an opportunity comes to bring us a little happiness we should not turn it away quickly just because it falls short of a perfect solution. 

Because, when we grow old we don't want to carry disappointments and bitterness is our hearts. 

So take what life offers; 

A gift can come in many different coloured ribbons. 

Even if it's not wrapped in your favourite shade it doesn't mean that you won't like what's inside the box.

It�s Your Turn

What do you think?

Wordless

It's sad when people you know become people you knew, 

When you can walk right 

past someone like they were never a big part of your life, 

How you used to be able to talk for hours 

And how now, 

You can barely even look at them

Love hurt?

Everyone says love hurts, 

but that is not true. 

Loneliness hurts. 

Rejection hurts. 

Losing someone hurts. 

Envy hurts. 

Everyone gets these things confused with love, 

but in reality love is the only thing in this world that covers up all pain and makes someone feel wonderful again. 

Love is the only thing in this world that does not hurt

It�s Your Turn

What do you think?

Because of you

Ever have that one person in your life that you just can't give up on, 

the one person who can screw you over time 

after time yet you always seem to give 

them another chance, 

and no matter how many times you say 

this is their last one, 

you know it's a lie because there's always 

just one more waiting for them. 

The one person you know you're better off 

without but yet you can't find a way to let them go 

because deep down inside you wouldn't know 

what to do without them. 

The one person that you know doesn't deserve you but yet you choose to overlook it. 

Because of your love.

It�s Your Turn

What do you think?

Conversation between me and you

Her: Will you pick me up if I ever fell down? 
Him: No. 

Her: Would you wipe away the tears when I'm sad? 
Him: Never. 

Her: Will you still love me when I look my worst? 
Him: Nope. 

Her: [feeling hurt after hearing this] At least you're honest. [starts to walk away...] 
Him: [grabs her back to face him] I wouldn't pick you up if you fell because I would catch you before you even hit the ground. 
I wouldn't wipe away your tears because I'll make sure there's nothing for you to ever be sad about. 
I wouldn't love you when you look your worst because that's impossible. 
You always look you're best, even when you think you don't. 
I love you more than anything, remember that.

It�s Your Turn

What do you think?

It's not because..

If you see me walking with someone else, It's not because I want to.. 

It's because you weren't brave enough to walk by me. 

If you see me smile, It's not because i forgot you... 

It's because i got tired of crying for you. 

If you see me living again, It's not because i've moved on... 

It's because i hate the fact you can live without me 

So if I fall in love with someone else, It's not because i want to... 

It's because you weren't there to catch me

It�s Your Turn

What do you think?

Love hurts and the price you pay is high

Did you ever love someone and know they didn't care? 

Did you ever feel like crying knowing it would get you no where? 

Did you ever look into someone's eyes and say a lil prayer? 

Did you ever look into someone heart wishing you were there? 

Did you ever watch someone walk away, not wanting them to go? 

Did you whisper, 

"God I love you"  but never letting them know? 

You cry at night in misery and almost go insane. 

Nothing in this world causes so much pain. 

If I could choose between love and death, 

I think I'd rather die. 

Love hurts and the price 

U pay is high. So I say, 

"don't fall in love" 

it'll hurt before its through, 

you see my friend, 

I ought to know......

because I fell in love with you.

Share your sad love story with us.

I love U and Me

I love the way you look at me even when you don't think I'm watching. 

I love the way you smile at me even when I've said the most stupidest thing.  I love the way we can fight and hang up the phone knowing the other person wants to call back but both are too stubborn. 

I love the way you can light up my face by just walking in a room. 

I love the way you look at me as you gently kiss my forehead 

I love all of this, but what I love most is...

You and I can't imagine living any other way; 

even if I can't see you every day, your voice echoes in my head, your love remains in my heart. 

And if you walk away, I know that it will be the best thing to ever walk out of my life.

It�s Your Turn

What do you think?

Always love you

There was once a guy who was very much in love with a girl. He folded 1,000 pieces of paper cranes as a gift to her. Although at that time he was just a small fry in his company and his

future didn't seem too bright he was contented with what he had.. for he was in love.. and they were both happy together..

Until one day, this girl told him she was going to leave the country for Paris and try to live a new life there with no intention of returning back. She also told him that she cannot visualize any future for both of them because he was poor and he had no dreams. He couldn't believe what he just heard and couldn't help but cry. She was his dream, his love, his friend.. she was his everything..

Just when he thought he had it all he gets to experience the true side of the world.. with all it's misery in it..

But love is being able to accept the truth no matter how it hurts.. She broke his heart and yet he still loves her..

Days have passed, months have gone by and yet his feelings for her has always stayed the same..

He worked hard night and day to put his mind off the past..

He wanted to prove her wrong about the fact that he has no dreams.. he can be somebody someday..

Finally with all the hard work and help from his friends, he was able to build his own company..

One rainy day, while he was driving along the highway, he saw an old couple sharing an umbrella in the rain while heading to some destination. It didn't take him a while to recognise them for they seemed familiar to him.. they were his girl's parents..

He drove back to them.. slowly.. to show them how his life has changed. how successful he has become.. he's got his own car, house, company.. he's got it all..

But what he saw next confused him. The couple were heading to a cemetery  Out of impulse he went out of the car and followed them.

She was there.. his heart pounded so fast for he couldn't believe what he was seeing.. He felt the warmth of his tears trickling down his cheeks.. He was crying in the rain..

He saw his girl's photograph smiling sweetly at him.. from her tombstone.. next to the paper cranes he once gave her.

Her parents felt his presence and looked back at him. Out of confusion he asked them why.. and how did all this happened.

She did not leave for Paris for she was ill with cancer, it was her clich�. She believed that he will make it someday and she didn't want to be his obstacle. All she ever wanted was to be with him.. but she chose to leave him to spare him from her suffering and frustrations..

Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to,

doesn't mean they don't love you at all.

She wanted her parents to put his paper

cranes beside her, because, if the day comes when fate brings him near to her again... 

he will remember how much she loved him and how much he meant to her...

Once you have loved someone, you will always love her.. forever. For what's in your mind and heart will remain forever.

He cried in silence and whispered... 

"I thought I almost had it all.. now I know what was missing.. you.."



It�s Your Turn
What do you think?

Never give up

Never give up if you still wanna try 

Never wipe your tears if you still wanna cry 

Never settle for the answer if you still wanna know 

Never say you don't love him if you can't let him go.

I miss you

I miss you when something really good happens, because you're the one I want to share it with. 

I miss you when something is troubling me, because you're the one who understands me so well. 

I miss you when I laugh and cry, because I know that you are the one that makes my laughter grow, and my tears disappear. 

I miss you all the time, 

but I miss you the most when I lay awake at night, and think of all the wonderful times that we spent with each other for those were some of the best and most memorable times of my life.